The decision to remove
Saturday, November 7, 2009
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married life is not easy, this is no secret. The personality of both partners is essential to be solid union. But in addition to personality, other circumstances can not be ignored and conditions affecting the relationship and they are external, why are beyond the control of the couple. Tolerance is necessary for the survival of marriage, but so is mutual respect. It is not "jump to the minimum", but neither should be tolerated unsatisfactory situations and painful, much less those that violate your personal dignity. If you suffer abuse do not hesitate to ask for help and report it. From that moment you are really protected, especially if you are female.
The decision to join in marriage is also free and voluntary and should be the decision of separating or divorcing.
Overall we can say that everyone is entitled to a second chance, but keep in mind that behaviors tend to recur and may end up creating a vicious circle. If this is your case, do not kid yourself, people do not change and, above all, no one can change anyone. This reason, ie, hope for change in attitude or character of the spouse is usually the primary responsibility for the perpetuation of relationships in some cases are actually fustigantes. Excuses such as: "He or she is acting this way but it is not your fault" "It does but without malice" "Yes, yes and hurts me, but that I / you want (or I want)" "I'm with him / her for my children "," And where I go if I get separated ...?. These excuses are usually excuses for not tackling the real situation, either through fear of change, loneliness or other similar reasons.
All this does not mean that the situation should not be seen with objectivity and you should not tell when the reasons that lead you to ask yourself the separation is trivial and you're giving them an importance they do not. If a relationship is worthwhile, and it's natural to do their best to keep it. But yes, with mutual respect. Demand that forever.
Everyone's entitled to be happy and free. Therefore you should implement your right to decide without remorse or coercion, because ultimately the decision to break off the relationship or not is yours alone. Vicki Ruiz
Lawyer specializing in Matrimonial and Family Law 
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