Yes or No? CUSTODY JUDGEMENT
Thursday, November 5, 2009
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Living with the children after the breakup of a family is usually the sticking point in the process of separation or divorce. I do not doubt that both parents feel much love for their children, but if you look more closely the situation can be seen from the existence of other factors that are not only the desire not to miss living with them. And is that custody is punishable by the use and enjoyment of the marital home and the perception of a maintenance manager to be the custodial spouse.
If we pause to note that the criteria used by the judge to award custody, we see that in general is taken into account:
- What was their relationship to both parents with children.
- who habitually has dealt with children in tasks such as taking them to school, meet teachers, who routinely dealt with their food hygiene and clothing.
- Which of the two, it is easier to reconcile work and family life.
- The relationship of children with each parent.
- The views of children from age 12.
is the woman who has been dealing with all these tasks by social tradition. It is true that every time a lesser extent. Yet the majority of mothers who ask leave of absence and reduced working hours for child care. Form the majority of children waiting at the gates of the school and attend parent meetings, which take them to the doctor when sick etc.
therefore not surprising that traditionally awarded custody to women, because they are responding to these demands.
But there are also cases where the reverse situation and give rulings granting custody to the father and visitation to the mother. In this sense, is news because a judge has awarded custody to the father
http://www.lavozdegalicia.es/ferrol/2009/12/07/0003_8155857.htm
The judge has taken into account that father had dedicated to their care exclusively and had been cared for very accurate. Of course, these few sentences are less because too few cases in which the man assumes the role of caregiver for marriage.
From my point of view, it is important that the child is related in a manner commensurate with both parents, but an important issue to consider is also the fact that during the marriage, the child's care is being done by one of the parents in a majority. Someone who spends most of his time to caring for the child it is against their professional career and consequently gets proportionately lower revenues than the other. When sole custody is granted, somehow this situation exists because the custodial parent retains its position as caregiver, still lives in the family home and receives extra income for the care of lower than compensate for its inability to devote more hours to work. In cases where joint custody is awarded the two positions are equal and will need to seek external support to take care of children. Because we all know how difficult it is in this country to combine family life and parenting with work. You may be looking for and what is the highest ratio of children with their parents to become a living with kangaroos or the best with their grandparents.
I think this is not sexist or demagogic solutions, but to find the most balanced and above all beneficial to the child because ultimately parents can choose parenthood or not and if you decide to have to assume certain responsibilities and obligations.
vicky Ruiz Lawyer specializing in Matrimonial and Family Law 
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