Thursday, November 5, 2009

Sore Throat With Blood In Mucus

ROLE OF GRANDPARENTS IN THE FIRE SEPARATION CRISIS

Last evening while returning from office, plus it already had on the Christmas lights, I was struck by the number of children who were in the hands of their grandparents and especially their grandmothers, with cole backpack hanging behind him. Yes, so far had not paid attention to this phenomenon, but somehow knew it existed, was not fully aware of this new generation of children who are growing up virtually with their grandparents. I heard somewhere once that a "strike grandmothers" would be much worse than a bus. I think they were right. I stopped to think then, if he really was giving in the separation process, the importance they actually have. And not only those guardian angels who, after all their dedication and effort, can be separated from those children now, pick up after school and spent many hours of daily effort resignedly. But also by the children themselves for obvious reasons that are very emotionally attached to their grandparents.


If these grandparents, parents happen to be the one who has not obtained the custody of his regime of coexistence with them will be very restricted and is usually a very frustrating experience for both parties.
Art. 160 of the Civil Code says about it, the grandparents have the right to interact with their grandchildren and if there is no just cause can not prevent such relationships. But in many cases is not going well but who has the Custody usually put all the possible impediments to compliance with the agreed views, on the other hand can also be very small.

When the regulatory agreement has not established any visitation between grandparents and grandchildren, can claim through the courts, through the oral trial, established by Law 42/2003 amending the Civil Code and Civil Procedure Act regarding the relationship between grandparents and grandchildren. However, most of the grandparents of these children avoid going to court for various reasons, among which are worsening the relations between the former spouses and not to go to the minors by a process which is always traumatic.


Nor is it being forced to either party, and if a forced situation and only upsetting confrontation but to maintain a relational coherence between the before and after marriage breakdown. Of course it would not be logical to establish a broad visitation between a grandparent and a grandchild between their relationship was to meet one day for Christmas and one for birthday, when they resided in the same city or in a nearby distance has not been a barrier to maintain greater contact and parents have no impediments to a closer relationship. This would be rather a sample of disinterest by both sides and from my point of view would be absurd to extend the separation.


In conclusion, I think it would be useful to reflect on these relationships, enriching, and that both can contribute to maintaining a small and a little more open attitude on this issue, because although they are not the biological or legal parents or children, in practice and in many instances are exerting as such because they spend so many hours or more with them than their own parents.



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vicky Ruiz Lawyer specializing in Matrimonial and Family Law
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